There has been a lot of talk lately about the silent suffering of those in the Church who are battling mental illness. The hurting are often voiceless, their experiences kept hidden from view so as to keep the Church looking all put together. While Jesus’ own ministry gathered a pretty rough-around-the-edges crowd, the American Church today seems to strive for the opposite. Those who don’t fit the mold are cast aside and left to find Jesus by themselves.
On blogs like this one and on podcasts like CXMH, many have begun to speak out in order to raise awareness about mental health issues. These forums allow stories to be told, myths to be dispelled and dialogue to be engaged. This is much needed to decrease stigma within the Church, so that we stop blaming those who are suffering. Those who have been muted are now able to test the waters of authenticity in hopes of not being shamed back into silence once again.
Today I am calling for a different kind of silence. I am asking my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ to respond with silence as those who were once voiceless begin to speak. Many rush to fix, critique or blame those who express their suffering. Some even do it using Scripture to shame and harm the very ones to whom God extends grace and hope. What if we, who do not face a daily battle with mental illness, simply responded with silence to those who do? What if we just listened? What if we were simply present and didn’t run away from the suffering? What if we just offered a supportive nod or a warm embrace? What if we wrote down for ourselves every verse in the Bible that advises a tight rein on the tongue and applied it to ourselves?
If we took a voluntary vow of silence and listened to those who now speak out to share their stories, what kind of spiritual and physical healing could take place? Might some chains be broken loose as we follow Christ’s example in accepting those around us without condemnation? How might the American Church change if we all followed the wisdom of Proverbs 17:28: “Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent; with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent”?
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